Saturday, February 2, 2013

Who are The Grown & Sexy...

Now the term Grown & Sexy might be dated.However it is still relevent at times.There is really no other term to describe this type of person.Now to me Grown & Sexy is when you bout 30 years old or older to about 45.You know how it was said 30 is the 40.(The 25 year old age group is right behind this crowd) .You and your wife or girl steppin out gettin ya groove on.Grown up style hitting the dance floor when Franky Beverly and Maze comes on.Now you can groove with the current music ,like what your teen-ager listens to.You know how to groove grown to that though.Not looking young but still hip ,ya know?...You might be seen doing the latest dance.
You and yours could be into church but still hip.Been in the world all your life.People might think you square cause you got in a new world.But hey you been in the real  world all your life ,come on now.Or you may not just good cool people.It does'nt matter.The Grown & Sexy is everything in between them two types.Dressed sharp.Fellas could have a light sag ,but rocking that button up.Or fly to def in they suit or outfit.   Here is a Grown n Sexy mix by DJ DFOS
http://soundcloud.com/dj-dfos/so-sexy-set-3-labor-day-mix
You got kids old enough to watch themselves or they can watch the younger kids so ya'll can have a night out.Now ya'll might not get out all the time but when you do you really try to enjoy yourselves cause it might be a little time between getting out.If you drink,you  might have a few drinks but don't get sloppy.You can hold it together.Cause at this point in your life you got it together.Kids are about to graduate form high school or even college.It's bout time to start "Doing You" to the fullest.

Forever Young .....Stay Grown n Sexy....

Tuesday, January 1, 2013

The BreakThru..2013

First off Happy New and prosperous Year to you!
A couple of weeks ago I declared that 2013 was gonna be my BreakThru year.On all levels personal,professional and spiritual.I've decided to set high goals.Ones I really have to commit,persist and fight for.
How about you?What's on your agenda for 2013?Are you tired of not seeing progress?Not measuring efforts and results?Make a commitment to yourself(Bet on you!!) to make the biggest stride you've ever made.Or even a bigger stride than you have.Then hold yourself accountable because no one else will.
1)Plan-2)Take action-3)Measure progress-4)Adjust to get desired outcome.Check in quarterly to make sure your actions are in line with your goals .Keep yourself in check !.
I'm thinking about where my life is now and  where I want to go.A roadmap.But as with any destination you need a strategy and direction.
"If you don't know where you're going,any road will take you there"
It's also important to maintain the excitement and drive as when you first start.You know how it tends to fall off after the grinding gets started.So engage in activities that renew and re-energize your mission.
It's so easy to fall back into complacency and feel like your not getting nowhere.
When the pain is strong enough about your situation only then will you decide to do something about it.
I'm demanding more of myself than anyone could ask for.I have to set my own higher standards.
The BreakThru is all about elevating your mindstate.That's what it all comes down to.
I started a circle on Google + MotivatedMindSet.It's like a master group for ambitious,motivated,inspired people.I feel like minded people can motivate,teach and inspire each others.
A year goes by faster than we think now a days.To minimize the time you have to maximize the effort.
Find the time to plan and work out your plan.If you think you don't have time.Look at your activities against your goals.Find where you're losing or wasting time.You gotta be your own manager sometimes.
I look at life like a pie and with your responsibilites and demands everybody gets a slice and you're left with the crust.The thing about it is you bake and the pie and your not entilted to a slice?I can't accept the standard society perscripton of that.So my goal is to gain more time,income and freedom.On my terms not someone else having control.It ties into to helping people with my passions and interests.
So make a statement this year.Demand more of yourself set high goals you have to work and sweat for.

To be comfortable later in life your gonna have to be uncomfortable now and grind it out.
(David Foster)

Stay Focused!! 2013 Live The Dream